1. Finish decorating the house. (Still to go: office, Charlie’s room, guest room, foyer, bathrooms, kitchen, living room.)

2. Be a brunette.

3. Go to Fashion Week.

4. Teach the boys to ski.

5. Create a beautiful closet.

6. Go whale watching in the San Juans.

7. Have a hot stone massage.

8. Finish the outdoor patio.

9. Institute Friday Cocktails on the outdoor patio.

10. Take a walking tour of the Lake District.

11. Have a professional makeup lesson.

12. Get a passport.

13. Paint a piece of furniture.

14. Go to the NCAA Men’s Final Four.

15. Find the Perfect Black Dress.

16. Host an elegant dinner party.

17. Meet Tim Gunn.

18. Start a weekend breakfast tradition.

19. Be the girl with the fully-stocked bar.

20. Write for Vogue.

21. Drink tea at the Pump Room in Bath.

22. Host a swanky cocktail party.

23. Knit a sweater.

24. Spend a weekend in Napa.

25. Sip midday margaritas on the deck at Coyote Cafe.

26. Take the boys to an NCAA football game.

27. Sleep in a room with a view in Florence.

28. Host a dinner at Campagne.

29. Be a redhead.

30. Vacation at the beach.

31. See Willy Nelson.

32. Order haggis in Scotland.

33. Buy a vintage handbag.

34. Deep-fry a turkey.

35. Sip a pernod at a Parisian cafe.

36. Shop with Clinton and Stacy.

37. Have need of a bespoke evening gown.

38. Go dancing in bespoke evening gown.

39. Learn to dance in the way people do when they’re wearing bespoke evening wear.

40. Drink Guinness in Dublin with Chris and Heather.

41. Learn to take really terrific photographs.

42. Second honeymoon!

43. Break out my china for everyday use.

44. Host a spa night.